Fighting and arguments are part of any relationship. If can be hurting when you fight with your partner, but what’s even more hurting are the consequences once the fight is over. You will take your time to cool down and think about what all you said during the fight. Things start to sink in and you will start regretting for all the words you spoke. Now comes the question, who is going to talk first, and how?
Texting a great way to break the silence and check if your partner is still angry or not. It doesn’t hurt to add a few romantic lines to let them know how much you love them. When you text you partner is also as important as what you text him.
How To Text Your Boyfriend After A Fight
Kali Rogers, founder of Blush Online Life Coaching, says that it is completely normal to have your own space after a fight. It will give you enough time to set your mind right, think about your feelings and also to figure out how to reconcile with your partner.
After you have let yourself cool down and set your mind in the right place, you can then reach out to him by text. Kali warns not to use texting to start the fight again. Restrict your texts to only sending positive messages as anything negative can be received in a wrong way and that can escalate the fight again. Use texting only as a means to repair your relationship and get back to normal.
As for the timing to send a text, Kali says to wait enough time until your mind and heart is in the right place. When you can think about your fight without being emotional, that is the time when you can send a text to him.
Now that you know when to text him, the question that still remains is what to text him? Below are some tips on what to text your boyfriend after a fight.
Tell Him How Much You Love
One of the best ways to get back to him is by letting him know how much you love him and how much he means to you.
“Do you know you are the best thing that ever happened to me? I really don’t like fighting with you. Can we just stop this and skip to the kissing part?”
Accept Your Mistake
It takes lot of guts to accept ones mistake. Whether the mistake was yours or not, acknowledging it will end a fight much quicker than you can imagine.
“I feel very sorry for what I said. Can I please make it up to you?”
Let Him Know You Are Ready For Patch Up
Once your partner has cooled down, even he could be wondering what could be the best time to get back to you. If you give him the green light that you are also ready for reconciliation, it will become easy for him to approach you.
“Let’s get over with the fighting part and start the making up part. It’s more fun.”
Tell Him You Will Change
Once you have acknowledged your mistake, you can also reassure him that you will change your behavior.
“Come back to me and let me show you how sorry I am.”
Tell Him To Forgive You
Asking him for forgiveness can make things easier for the both of you to patch up.
“I can’t imagine my life without you. Please forgive me.”
Sometimes it can get hard if you are the first one to text him after a fight. You might have to swallow your pride, but it is all worth the effort when your relationship is back to normal. There are no couples in the world who don’t fight, but how they make up after the fight is what sets them apart. A relationship should not be judged based on their fight, but on how they get back and grow together, says Kali. While words can hurt people, you can also use it to heal it.
If you have any more tips on what to text your boyfriend after a fight, let us know in the comments below.