The rules of dating have changed a lot over the years and women are not afraid to be the first one to ask a guy out. But how to do you ask a guy to come over through text?
Being the first one to make a move can get overwhelming and it can get a bit scary to text a guy to come over. You might also have the fear of getting shamed or rejected. My advice is if you like the guy and want him to come over then just ask for it.
How To Text A Guy To Come Over?
If you are confused how to text a guy to come over through text, then don’t worry as I’ll help you out. Asking a guy to come over can be easy and below are some tips that you can follow to make it a lot more easier.
The Rules Of Hooking Up
If you want to hook up with your crush, then you need to know that this is a two way street. If you are going to text him to come over and hook up, then you should also be ready for those 2 am “you up?” text messages that he is going to send you. And if you are okay with this two way rule then you can proceed.
Don’t Go Big In The Beginning
You can’t just say “hey let’s have sex” and scare him. You should always start small before bringing the big guns. The first time you enter a pool, you have to dip your toe before diving in it.
You can start with a simple conversation like “how was your day?” or “your insta story was very funny”. Or just naturally text him like you usually do.
You don’t have to make it a bog thing. Even you are a human being and have your own needs and you have every right to make those needs meet.
Bring Out The Big Guns
Text messages are often misunderstood so always be clear and precise about what you want to tell. You don’t have to beat around the bush. You goal is to text your crush to come over. So don’t send a cute message or an emoji that he will take forever to decode. Men are simple creatures. You need to tell them exactly what you want or else you lose your chances of hooking up with him.
Here are some text examples on what you can text him so that your crush can understand what exactly you want.
“Want to come over and hook up?”
You are being clear about what you want and getting your message across to him.
“I want to suck your lips. Come over soon.”
You are giving him a visualization of what is going to happen. Another way to be precise with your text. You are in charge here. You are not asking him to come over, but you are telling him.
“Wanna come over for netflix & chill?”
Not an exact meaning for a hook up but I don’t think there is any man in this world who don’t know what netflix & chill means.
“Remember that day? I wanna do it again.”
If you already had a hook up before then you can let him know that you are ready for a second round. This will get him excited easily and he can’t resist coming over.
“Hey, let’s have sex.”
If you want to show him how bold you are, then just tell him directly what you want. There is no guess work or text decoding involved and he is clear about what you want.
Never be afraid to ask for what you want. And always remember to have fun to get the things that you want. Good luck.
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