“How to impress my girlfriend?” Is this something that is always on your mind?
In this article, we will share tips and techniques on how to impress your girlfriend and show her how awesome you are, striving to be the best boyfriend you can.
By the end of this article, you will learn how to make her jaws drop. Just make sure not to reveal to her that you had a little help from us or she might think that you are not creative enough to impress her on your own.
Help Her In Cleaning
Just because you are a man doesn’t mean that you don’t have to involve yourself in cleaning work. One of the best ways to impress your girlfriend is by helping her in cleaning around the house.
This is because men are known for being careless and untidy and by helping her you will show her that you are also a responsible partner.
You can start by cleaning your stuff like moving your dirty clothes off the floor, cleaning dishes after meals, etc. further, you can do general jobs like cleaning your bathroom once a week, vacuuming around the house, and so on.
Of course, you can also help her during the cleanup and save her time. This will not only make her very happy but also impress her a lot since you are showing her that you are not a lazy slob like other guys.
You can help her even if you are not living together. Since both of you will be spending time in each other’s house, you can take up a few responsibilities and impress her.
Go On Dates
And by date, I’m not speaking about going out for another ordinary dinner or movie. Do something beyond that which will show your creative side.
For example, if you are going for dinner, eat foods that you have never tried before or visit restaurants that you have never been to.
Or instead of going to a restaurant, you can make it more special by planning a surprise midnight picnic with hot soup and warm food under the starry night. Not only it is inexpensive but also extremely romantic.
You can also try something adventurous together like going on a hike or anything else that even your girlfriend will enjoy a lot.
Remember that it doesn’t have to be expensive to make her feel special. Something even as simple as holding hands and walking together in a park in the evening will show her how much you care for her and extremely impress her at the same time.
Show Interest In Her Interests
If you want to make your girlfriend very happy then you have to take a keen interest in the things that she cares a lot about.
Learn more about hobbies, interests, likes, and dislikes like her favorite movies, songs, or anything that makes her happy. Then you can find more about them on the internet and offer to join her in one of her interests and turn it into a date.
If you don’t have much knowledge about her interests then you can talk to her about it. Most women are more than happy to talk about them. Alternately, you can even talk to her best friends, parents, or siblings and find more about your girlfriend’s interests.
I say this again and again. Women love ambitious men. It is one of the most attractive qualities that women look for in their partners.
Instead of being a potato, work hard towards reaching your goals, fight for your dreams, and care enough to have a successful life.
Strive for bigger goals in life. You can even include your interests in your ambitions. For example, learn a new hobby like playing guitar or practice to participate in a marathon.
Take Her Advice
It’s a common perception among the society that opinions given by women cannot be taken seriously and most of them even believe in this.
If you want to make your girlfriend happy and impress her then start asking for her advice or opinion on things. You are subtly showing her that she is capable of making wise decisions. Of course, you should also follow her advice to show her that you respect her opinion.
For example, if one of your friends is having a problem with his girlfriend then you can ask your girlfriend for advice on how to solve their problem. Or if you are having a bad day at work you can take her opinion on fixing it.
Whenever you are with your girlfriend make sure that you give all your priority to her and make her the center of attraction.
That means not using your phone for texts or calls. No trying to impress or flirt with other women. Lean on to her and look into her eyes. Actively listen to her whenever she is talking to you.
Chivalry can mean many things like showing respect, being courteous, and a gentleman. That means opening doors for her, defending her, or taking her side whenever she is in need. And do all these things because it’s the right thing to do and not because you want something in return.
Most women think that guys do all these things because they are looking for physical rewards in return but prove her wrong by showing her that you are doing it only to keep her happy and be the best boyfriend you can be for her.
Don’t Talk Behind People’s Backs
Do not talk rude or insult other people behind their back as it might give the impression to your girlfriend that you might be talking about her the same way when she is not around.
She will be very much impressed when you show her that you are a pure-hearted person and a mature adult and not a jerk. They already deal with enough jerks in their daily life. Don’t be on that list.
You can impress your girlfriend by not only showing her that you are a good boyfriend but also a good human being. There are too many people who make fun of poor and homeless people, mentally challenged people, etc but very less people who actually help them.
It says a lot about our character when we respect even the most vulnerable people around us. Even if you can’t help them you can at least be nice to them and show them respect.it will give a clear signal to your girlfriend that you are a good person and she will be proud of you.
Be Nice To Kids
Women think that guys are bad with kids. Surprise her by showing her that you are great even at handling kids.
If you are not good with kids it might take some time to get used to them. Most of the time kids love to play pretend games so just channel your inner kid and have fun playing with them.
Women love compliments. And they love it even more when they are honest. So bid goodbye to backhanded compliments ad focus towards honest compliments.
Also, avoid compliments that can be used for just about any girl and be specific with your words and something that she has control over.
For example, if you compliment about her figure she might think that you will not value her if she gains weight. Instead compliment about her sense of humor, intelligence, and kindness.
Give Her A Homemade Gift
Making a homemade gift and giving it to your girlfriend will make her very happy and impress her a lot. You can find many ideas online for homemade gifts.
Not only it will show your creative side but also show your feelings for her since you took your time to make something for her.
For example, you can gift her a keepsake box with all your memories inside like photos, letters, etc. It might surprise her and bring her to tears.
On the other hand, if you are not good with creativity you can make a CD with songs that show your feelings for her.
Send Her Flowers
Sending her flowers is also a good idea to impress her. You can send her flowers when she is at work. She will be floored when you show your affection in front of many people. To make it unique, skip the roses and find out what her favorite flower is and send it to her.
Give Her A Massage
Go online and find some great tutorials on sensuous massage and surprise her with a spa treatment.
Start with the classic back massage and then go all the way for a full body rub down. It won’t take much time for her to totally meltdown.
Surprise Her With Breakfast
It doesn’t only have to be breakfast. You can cook any meal and surprise her. And you don’t need the skills of a master chef to make her happy. There are many breakfast ideas that don’t take much time to cook.
Keep Hidden Love Notes
Take a pad and write short love notes that express your feelings for her and spread it all around the house but make sure that they are in a clear view.
You can keep the notes in places like refrigerator, kitchen cupboard, inside her purse, etc. You can write love notes like “You have made my life better.” Or “I’m so lucky to have such an awesome girlfriend.”
While there are many more ways on how to impress your girlfriend, you can start by following these and get creative by adding your own twists. Just keep her happy, be there for her during her good and bad times, create special memories that last for a lifetime and try to be a better person for her.
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